Sex is great and good for health. It will releases dopamine in the brain, and change your hormones which increases your pleasure and sense of happiness. Sex will foster positive emotion and strengthen your relationship, mood, and emotional bond. Sex has no specific standard. What you like, how often you want it, and how important it is to you is different for everyone.

When you decided that sex is a huge part of a relationship, choosing the right people is extremely important and it will make a huge difference in sexual intercourse. Study shows that people who have sex at least once a week are happier than those who haven’t. Nowadays, people choosing all kinds of tools and ways to please their bodies and are satisfied with new and different sex toys. Most people believe that having sex with a real person can’t be replaced with some sex toy or sex dolls. Other think that sex toy and sex doll is a new way and exciting exploration to understand their body more. 

Which do you prefer, have sex with a real girl, masturbate, or use a sex doll? In this article, we will list the advantage and disadvantages of having sex with a real girl or sex toys for your reference. If you have any other opinions, please comment in the below comment section.


Advantage of having sex with a real girl

  • Emotion connect and mental pleasure
  • A real, flexible, and warm body
  • Better foreplay before sex
  • She can move and express her feelings

The best thing about sex with a real person is the feedback you can get from them. Besides, you can feel the real touch, the girl’s sweat, the skin-to-skin contact and the kiss, the communication during the sex. When you finish it, she likes lying down on your arms and sharing, exchanging your thoughts. Most people want their partner to be active in sex, they don’t want someone just to lay down there and do nothing. Man will be more turned on by women who can moans, gasp, they are enjoying seeing the reaction of their partners. It also provides wonderful mental and emotional pleasures.

The disadvantage of having sex with a real girl

  • You should care about her feeling and emotions
  • She will not like to fulfill your queer sex fantasize
  • She may judge your appearance and criticize your lifestyle
  • She may refuse you when you are horny

With the right girl, you will have the best sex in your life. But sometimes, a relationship can be tough, you have to care about your girl’s feelings, prepare the gifts for special holidays and, still, they may judge your lifestyle and control your emotion, hurt your feelings. Women are emotional creatures, so they are easy to get attached to someone they love, therefore, sex is not just sex, but a commitment and promise to them. Apparently, it’s will take too much time, energy, and money to maintain a long-term relationship. When someone has desires and needs from you, it’s too much pressure sometimes. In any case, she can refuse your sex desire or needs when they get emotional. 

Disadvantage of masturbation

  • It can’t provide a real sex experience
  • You may get addicted to it

If you like a quick orgasm, then masturbation is right for you. If you prefer emotion connect or interact with your partner, it can’t provide the real sex experience to you. Masturbation is often businesslike and efficient, whereas sex with someone else can be exploratory, meandering, and surprising. 

Advantage of having sex with a realistic sex doll

  • No risk of STD’s and pregnant
  • Physically perfect, ideal proportions. 
  • No emotional connection or communication
  • Save money for dating. No cheating.
  • No need for warm-ups or foreplay as well, you can penetrate it when you feel like it.
  • Does not expect anything in return

Sex doll is created for people who have no time to go out on a date, or who are not confident about their body shape but still want to have a sex life. As well as someone who had sex fantasy about their belove famous star, or willing try out a new way to explore their body.

She won’t judge you and criticize your life, you can do whatever you want with her. Anytime you are ready, she hole will stay tight like a virgin to you. Besides, you can go fast and slow as you want, you are the one who gets to decide what sex position you want to be in, and your choice of the sex act.

Sex dolls are well-made, TPE and silicone are the most expensive materials used to make love dolls, but also the most durable, with TPE the best choice for a long-lasting doll. And we believe that sex dolls can help you increase your confidence in the bed and practice your sex skills. 

There are many types of sex dolls in the market, you can decide to buy one that meets your taste. If you get tired of this one, then you can replace her with a new one, no one will judge you for that. Having sex with a love doll is just like with a real woman, but more intense and exciting. She is the one who always likes to please you with her body and bring you happiness. She’s always here and never refuses when you are horny.



The disadvantage of having sex with a realistic sex doll

  • Cleaning, care, and maintenance
  • Cold body (The heater can be helpful)
  • Less body movement and facial expressions
  • It’s more expensive than “Fleshlight”

The problem is it’s not a real woman. It’s not warm and can’t speak with you. Having sex with a realistic sex doll means you need to do all works. Besides, a BBW sex doll is overweight that can’t move around easily, so many people choose the mini sex doll instead. As the sex doll is a built-in skeleton joint which means they are flexible but not as flexible as a real person, you have to put her in the right position in the first place before you having sex with her. 

In addition, a sex doll can’t clean and care for herself, so you need to take care of her and make her clean every time used it. It will take much more time to do the cleaning and maintenance. Obviously, a sex doll is a quite expensive sex toy, a silicone sex doll may cost you $2000-$8000, so many people choose the TPE sex doll, it’s much cheap than a silicone sex doll, and you can get a little sex doll just only $300. 


Wrap up

First of all, there is nothing wrong to find a new way to please yourself and learn your body more. If you are happy with your girlfriend, then stay happy. If you are tired of being alone and not ready to go out for a date, then buy a sex doll to enjoy your life. Masturbation is a fun and normal act used by many to explore their body and feel pleasure, you can have as many times as you want as long as it doesn’t affect your life. Wish you all have a great and happy sex life.